Me or is he lazy?

so we have been together 4 yrs, married 2. I have had a great career for many years, when we got married he had a great full time job. then he decided to start working from home right after the wedding. hes had about small 3 paychecks in 2 years (money is not the issue) the problem i have is that during the day at home i dont know what he does toward his "business". he usually looks at porn everyday, has a serious pain pill addiction. what bothers me the most is he lies constantly, gets upset that i dont cook more or if i ask him for help around the house he freaks. he changed alot since we got married. we used to have sex all the time and had tons of fun. now he seems to be the most self centered person i have ever met. he threatens divorce constantly when i bring up my feelings. i am young smart and super hot--all i want is someone who will try as hard as i do in this relationship, i think he is used to me paying the bills and doing housework so why should he try? hellllppppp!

He was like that before you married him, only you didn't know it because he tricked you. Trust me on this one. Most of the time we think people changed but the truth is these things already be there. We just don't see there characteristics because they camaflouge them so well.

They use what they got to get what they want and after getting it. Then Bam here comes the real person. Next time he threatens divorce say ok. He's not going no where, Are you kidding me? He got it made and he knows it. He needs to get up off the pot or piss.

Divorce sounds like a blessing. I bet he will file for spousal support.

So....what you want us to believe (in order to answer your question) is that he was GREAT before the wedding....and then he SUDDENLY became a lying, porn-addicted, complaining, pill-popping unreasonable BUM.

Wow. So....I guess that makes you "young smart and super hot" AND blind?

Or...."young smart and super hot" but with bad judgement?

Or...."young smart and super hot" but with no abilty to see your own faults, only those of others...

I dunno. pick one.

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