TO MATURE PEOPLE... i am suddenly feeling that i deserve to have a better girlfriend, now that i'm working..

i was a bum before, but lately i decided to grow up and went into the real estate business... i'm doing well enough now though... she had me at my worst, now i'm becoming a better responsible man, i think the thing that triggered me to grow up is when i've found out that people around her tells her to leave me because i dont deserve her since she's a call center agent and i was just a bum, but she fought for me, saying that she believes in me, and that she knows that i can be someone successfull and she was right.. yet after all her belief in me, i feel so guilty to feel that she's the one who don't deserve me now unlike before... what sould i do? i love her, but i really feel the need to move on with someone better..! what shud i do? pls help me.. im 23yrs old.. she's too..




F.Y.I, i'm definitely not going to dump her!! duh!

i'm just stating here WHAT I FEEL!!! ofcourse i owe her a lot my debt of gratitude..

the fact that i'm stating this question, is because i'm worried that this feelings of mine wud get worst! i want a remedy..!!

Look, people change, you are maturing and growing up finally and you see things differently than you have in the past. Perhaps she is not the one for you and you are beginning to see that now through your clearer vision. Take a little time, calm down and see what happens.

she stuck if out for her, now you go support her! you cant control your feelings, just do whats right and best for you

first thing first do u still love this girl. not a friend as someone else. if YES than don't worrie. but the thing u need to pray to God about ur feelings. He will tell u what u need to do. ok the simple way to do this is to ask God what ur question is and HE WILL BE THERE.


remeber JESUS LOVES YOU

Well it seems to me that you have gotten some confidence that you never had before. Now that you got that confidence you got more options now. It's unfortunate you feel this way, and you should feel grateful for the confidence your girl had in you, but you don't want to put yourself in misery in staying in a relationship were you don't have feelings for (in your case, less feelings then your partner).

Your 23 years old and your still discovering yourself. To be fair to you and your girlfriend, I think you should be straight up with how you feel. She deserves an explanation, and should be let off fairly. Maybe you guys can work things out, and a lil talk c