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Starting a new business and have a huge dilemma with my fiancee?


I am starting a new business, a horse boarding and training center with a partner and it is based out of where we live on a ranch. My Fiancee is the one who suggested it, and introduced me to my partner, and mentioned to her and her husband about her helping me. It took some persuasion on my part to get her to agree. She has more experience. She is a wonderful person and well known in her expertise. Now the problem is my fiancee is miserable, very very unhappy, he feels they are taking over the place. They are now thinking about renting our their large house and moving into the barn appartment, and bring there 3 dogs and be here 24 -7. They want my fiancee to move his horse to other areas etc, nit picky stuff but he feels he leased the property and invited them to help, and feels they are taking over, he wont even talk to them... He is very mad, i just moved here and things are not going well , I am so sad i cant hardly function. How do i make every one happy?

Yikes - your first mistake is thinking that you CAN make everyone happy.

You must respect your fiance's concerns and take charge. By your description, it sounds like he wants some more space than you both currently have. Consider NOT having your partner live on the ranch - and see what their reaction is.

That's probably a good place to start.

What is more important? Can you survive without your fiance? Can you survive without your new business? I think you have to make that decision first.

What do you want? Do you really want your business partner living on your property with you? Did you invite them to move into the barn apartment? If you don't or didn't invite them...then tell them that it isn't part of the deal...I can understand why your fiance is unhappy....I would be too....You better do something quick...because you may not have a fiance for much longer....

that's impossible, but what is possible is everyone to sit down calmly and talk about everything, and ill tell you that if he already feels crowded than this is probably a bad idea all the way around, cause it sounds like now he wants to pout and take his ball and go home if everything dosent go his way, this is a really bad idea to do this with this man, he has some growing up to do

End it with the other people right now!

I've actually seen this happen in Sacramento 2 years ago to my Niece and her husband!
1st , they start a business with you , infringe on personal time , then move in and then inform the owner there the ones who are actually taking care of the land , then YOUR EVICTED!

I've seen this actually exact thing it's so scary to actually see someone other then a family member have this problem!

GET RID OF THESE INTERLOPERS BEFORE YOUR THE ONES OUT IN THE COLD!

Yeh right! like them wealthy business people would listen to strangers on the net. Come on! if you are able to open your own business. You should know how to handle your everyday affairs. Common management ability skills. How do you handle your daily tasks? How would you deal with your employees?, etc...Use it.

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