How would you handle this situation with your wife?

my wife is very self centered. we've been arguing about having another kid for awhile (we have 3 already 2 mine and 1 hers). she then quit her birth control without my knowledge got pregnant and had an abortion (her choice). after i couldn't take care of her after it (i was taking care of all 3 kids), she said you don't love me enough and care more about the kids. i told her, i did the best i could. she packed her bags and left after that fight and is now i want this from the house and that. i told her fine but i don't want to see you ever again. i'm serious. she said let's sit down and talk about what to do. i said email me what you want, i don't think we should be talking. anybody else marry a narcisisst? I don't think she's done with me but im done with her. i proved it today by taking out half the money. she needs to understand that ive had it and when she left, i mean business. i don't think she's done with me though. how should i treat her?

I honestly think she needs to see a therapist.
You are so polite, only taking your fair share of the money, personally I would have tied up all the money until it was sorted out by a lawyer, making sure the kids were okay and thats it.
She is very confused, and I don't know what reaction she was hoping to get from you with the pregnancy/abortion fiasco, but I feel she was trying to hurt you for your indecision.
It worked.
You should treat her politely, respectfully, yet like a maniac with a loaded gun. there are children involved, even though you are not shared parents, their feeling still need to be taken into account.
so you be the mature sensible one, and just let her run amok. That way she will burn out and hopefully get a shred of compassion and feeling for someone other than herself.

Hey guy, r u planning to offload her and get a new younger wife. i doubt. ur words are not convincing and I suspect u r lying. I donot believe u.

You are doing the right thing! Keep up the good work and stay strong! Your wife needs to be by herself.

If you do not want to continue the merry go round relationship, you should communicate through you lawyer. She chose to get pregnant, she chose to have an abortion and she chose to leave. If you let her back, she will continue the same pattern. Good luck.

she sounds a little unstable, why go off birth control, fall pregnant then have an abortion????? I would get a solicitor to handle everything from now on. Have no contact with her, change your phone number and let the lawyers sort it out.

I would keep doing what u r doing to show her that u have had enough. Keep ur distance another words give each other space. But make sure the kids r taken care of. U have been doing a great job of thta already. But think about y she may feel like she does. Maybe something happened. Then c if she comes to u.

wow, shell probably never be happy if thats all she left you for... im sure she doesnt even realize that shes being self centered. most people who are dont know they are

have her read The Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands"
by Dr Laura Schlessinger.

that should open her eyes

My husband says:

The abortion would be enough to send my wife packing. No one is allowed to murder my children....born or unborn.