Help plz. i am heartbroken..i think my husband is cheating on me...?

this am i got on the computer 2 read the news on yahoo. he gets up for work at 4am, has to leave by 6am, & browse on the net as well. this am, in the tray was a website he left open iconified. i went to close it, it popped up, & it was his web page frm a class reunion site. i guess curiosity kills the cat, bcuz noticed emails in his box. i opened them, & discovered a chick's been emailing him & he's been mailing her back! it began casual, talking about their upcoming reunion this year. then she commntd on his pics, & how she like the same sports as him. gave him her business email & personal email address 2 kp in touch. she ? our children (my dtrs are his step kids) & in a email he denied them as well as told her we were seperated & in the process of divorce. we did have an argument around the time of this email & tlkd divorce but we agreed to counslng. he blasted me when i confronted him that i had no biz reading his email. i dont know how 2trust him-it hurt. she's rich but UGLY...

im sorry that was mean of me..she's not very attractive which got me confused. she's rich with a successful web business & degrees out the wadzo. she offered for him to come & see her in FL. when i saw her picture i couldnt help but think "WTF" im not drop dead beautiful but i look better than this woman. i'm angry he threw that comment up instead of apologizing and then blamed me for discussing divorce and counseling..that i sent him mixed signals so he was ready to "find him someone else". we have been together for 18 yrs. married less than 1. is marriage too much pressure for him? advise appreciated...thanks.

I believe every woman has her own intuition when it comes to her man cheating. If he doesn't spend his free time with you like most husbands do then their might be a chance your speculations are accurate. The thing with snooping is, it wouldn't be "snooping" if he didn't have anything to hide. If you trust your partner completely then you should have to secrets between the two of you. The fact that he was 1. talking to another woman, even if its an old friend he should let you know whats going on and who hes been k.i.t. with. Also, why he is telling this old friend private information about your family and status as a couple?? It sounds like hes trying to convince this "old friend" that hes unattached and willing to try something with her... and your husband got mad that hes been caught, not that you went snooping in his e-mails. Good Luck. I hope you have the courage to stand up to this man for yourself and your girls.

he is sooooooooo cheating being it physical or mental, on line or in person. i was married to a cheat for 20 years and i can see it a mile away. "he blasted me when i confronted him that i had no biz reading his email. " this is an admission right there. hit the road sister and don't look back.

i dont think he's cheating on you at least not yet. i would be suspicious if he was staying out late and not coming home or he had strange calls on his cell or something. this may be an indicated he WANTS to cheat on you or MIGHT cheat on you with this person, but i doubt he has done it yet.

You read it yourself. No matter what his story is he still denied your children and stated he was getting a divorced. It does not matter she does look attractive to you its him who is obviously comminicating with her on a more than friend level. I would not trust him.