What are the reasons my husband would have. . .?

waitresses' email addresses?

Sometimes they're on receipts he leaves strewn around our house, or on the back of his business cards?

I was a waitress for ten years and I know the scene very well. I can tell you he might not be cheating but he is definantly flirting with the idea. And do not believe his excuses, email addresses are the first thing a married man will give up.

If he just leaves them around the house then he must not care about any of them , if he was hiding them then that would be different,He must be to nice of a guy and not say no when they write their info down.He should stand up and be a man.

Maybe he wants to look them up on Myspace... Im joking. Well, I dont know, but it cant be good... Id put an end to that super fast!!

could be anything,,, or nothing.

I think you should give me your email address. LOL

well one think comes to mind to chat on the net? get a number later, or send jokes, maybe this is a question you need to ask him or even go back to where he got the receipt and question them about it if you feel you wont get a straight answer, how long has this been going on? if i seen them lying around i would simply put them in the trash

Sorry cant help you there ....Isnt It normaly a phone number?

i guess wife is always last to know ? there is no reason your husband would have their email address unless they approached him or he approached them. their was a requester in this transaction. let's go with the scenario that they hit on your hubby. a hubby that had no interest would have pitched the email address and not saved it. what are the odds that several waitresses would be hitting on hubby ? i think the other scenario is the one that is going on. perhaps you both need some counseling ? you need to nip this matter in the bud if its there. i suspect that he's already cheating. perhaps be silent and wait/ watch and/or hire someone to tail him. don't cue him in that you are observing ? totally your call. good luck.

How strewn are they? In plain obvious sight? I agree that if it was trouble he would hide them. You could joke around and call him a waitress magnet. If it bothers you I think you should talk to him about it. Spouses should try not to make their partners uncomfortable. So if you're worried I would let him know. Say it's silly but that kind of bothers me. I just want to make sure everything is okay between us. He may stop the addresses from coming and he may not. But you are probably a good judge of how he reacts to things. How he responds to you when you share your feelings will determine if there is something to worry about or not.

He's either cheating already or looking for an opportunity to do so. What are you going to do about it?

He's picking up chicks. I dont care what excuse that sounds harmless comes out of his mouth, he's whoring around.