I have a guy oficemate who always appeard in my dreams, what does it mean?

since i transfered office 7 yrs ago from d other branch, i noticed that this guy showed much concerned to me than the rest,so eventualy am confortable wd him, and bcame like a confidant. i just wonder that oftentimes when we have parties in d ofice and he gets a little drank, he seems expressing his feelings, but i never gave a damn, were both married..and just hope he s happy as i am happy wd my marriage. .lately, aftr that long years, he finally was able to express his feelings when he is in normal situation, its true that he loves me through these years. i undertand his feelings, told him its better that it was finally expressed and i know eventualy it will be banished/heal with time.But he told me, it will stay this way, i may change my dealings with him or get angry, but he will continue loving me, which he cant explain. s there really such thing like this?

If you are truly happy in your present marriage? than just continue and stay away from this loser before you lose whatyou have. sounds like a good thing!

Yes, I have had a close friend that was in a situation very similar to this. She was in love with a married man that she worked with, and it was just all crazy! But it stayed awkward until he move and got another job, and she was transfered and ended up moving out of town. It is a odd situation, but it is true. I would just try not to be too nice, but don't be mean either. Good Luck!!

Man: To see a man in your dream is a sign about the masculine part of yourself - the side that is assertive, rational, aggressive, and/or competitive. If the man is known to you, then the dream may reflect you feelings and concerns you have about him.
Co-worker: To see your coworkers in your dream highlights areas of your waking relationship with them, including difficulties/support. It points to your ambition, struggles and competitive nature. If the coworkers in your dream are not your actual co-workers, then they may pertain to some psychological business that you need to work on.

You need to talk to the other guy who can't quit cheating on his wife. Sounds like you two have something in common...no self respect....

I have heard of people going through similar situations and
some have said that in your own self concisous mind that you
have or at some time or another you have had thoughts of
this piticular person for reasons unknown. It is very hard to
understand but i think we all go through some kind of mental
picture of a certain person and wonder. It could just be that
you feel pressure from this guy (mentally) and so it invades
your mind on a regular basis, and its bound to end up in your
dreams. I think the guy should talk with someone in the
professional field on this and you should tell him to let it go, and
how it is upsetting you. This could make anyone a nervous
wreck, anything that makes one a mental issue, also causes
a physical issue. Please keep that in mind. Best of luck to you.